I’m so glad to have started my doTERRA journey when I did. I don’t know how I would have handled this past week if not for the help of some amazing liquid in small brown bottles.
So wives, we’ve all had moments when we could kill our husbands, no offense to the men reading this blog, I’m sure there are times when the hubsters want to kill us too… my husband hates that I leave “mess” everywhere and drink all the milk. Mostly, of course, its just a figure of speech and we don’t mean it. However, Monday morning I discovered that hubby had thrown out my $95 pair of chocolatica shoes, AND the garbage truck had already been. My husband has seen me mad before, he’s seen me rant and rave, and even throw an adult tanti at my worst, but this time I was so mad, I appeared calm. It was that eye of the storm mad, where you portray a calm and measured exterior but you are seething on the inside. And he knew he’d effed up, he even offered to buy me a new pair.
I knew that once the eye of the storm passed it was not going to be pretty… I needed to calm down and calm down fast! You see, I hate shoes as a rule, and go barefoot as much as possible, but these were the first shoes I had been excited about since Doc Marten’s in the mid 90s. AND HE THREW THEM OUT FOR NO REASON! Apparently mistook them for a pair of our six year old daughter’s shoes that she had outgrown! I mean I know my foot isn’t big but COME ON!
Reason number 1 for not killing husband: I love him.
BUT HE THREW OUT MY CHOCOLATICAS!
Reason number 2 for not killing husband: He is father of our child.
BUT HE THREW OUT MY CHOCOLATICAS!
Reason number 3 for not killing husband: Someone needs to dispose of big spiders from the house.
BUT HE THREW OUT MY CHOCOLATICAS!
Ok so as you may have figured, I’m a little pissed off. I really needed to calm my farm. Vetiver, thank the gods I had some Vetiver on hand or I might have been hauled off by the fuzz. I mixed a few drops in with some coconut oil and massaged it into my feet and took myself off for a restful lay down on my bed. Solitude and Vetiver= bliss.
So to conclude- husband still alive and unscathed; I’m sad about my shoes but I’ll get over it in time, and the Vetiver provided a lovely calming and restful effect on my whole body which is exactly what I needed.
I’m a doTERRA Wellness Advocate, you can purchase oils and/or contact me here. I’m happy to answer any questions you may have.
NB: I’m not a violent person and this post was intended as tongue in cheek, I would never truly wish harm upon my husband or any other person.